Happy blogiversary!!

I just noticed that it’s my one year anniversary for my blog!! I had no idea when that was coming up. In celebration, here are my week of quotes!!

Sunday, January 22-What the world needs is more geniuses with humility, there are so few of us left. Oscar Levant-entertainer (Very entertaining indeed! And agreed!)

Monday, January 23-How old are you?-Mathematician Augustus De Morgan: I was x years old in the year xsquared. (Math humor-gotta love it!!)

Tuesday, January 24-There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory which states that this has already happened. Douglas Adams-writer (I think this is a little silly, but then again, perhaps I’m just not smart enough to really take it seriously!)

Wednesday, January 25-We are here and it is now. Further than that all human knowledge is moonshine. H. L. Mencken-editor (I think he makes a good point!)

Thursday, January 26-If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be. Maya Angelou-writer (So true!! I embrace my differences from other people. Normal people are boring!!)

Friday, January 27-Q: What is your I.Q.? Physicist Stephen Hawking: I have no idea. People who boast about their I.Q. are losers. (Hehe! Gotta feel good as a quadriplegic to call people losers and be right!!)

Saturday, January 28-Forget whatever should be forgotten, so that you can remember what should be remembered. Bing Xin-writer (Absolutely necessary when you have limited capacity, which we all do to some extent or another!)

I hope you’re enjoying these quotes as much as I am!! Now if only I can make some sense of the Mensa brain puzzlers…


Special MLK Day quotes

This is my last personal day:( I did manage to get all my paperwork under control (quite the momentous task!) My office took 5 days to clean and it’s soooo much better! I think I will beĀ much more productive in my neater environment.

That being said, I want to start with an inspirational blog post with quotes from my calendar!

Sunday, January 15-I imagine that one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, that they will be forced to deal with pain. James Baldwin-writer (I think this is true of anger sometimes too.)

Monday, January 16-The time is always right to do what’s right. Martin Luther King Jr. (I don’t think anyone can argue with that! Of course some folks wouldn’t know what’s right if it smacked them in the face!!)

I hope everyone celebrates this beautiful person who left us way too soon! We must carry on his work until there is truly a level playing field for everyone, everywhere!!!

An alarming trend!

This week my son had a speaker named Christopher Milo come to his school to talk about the heroin epidemic! We went to a meeting on Thursday evening to hear his message about a subject that I have been concerned about for some time. Our niece died a couple years ago of a methadone overdose (which I didn’t even know was possible,) while trying to wean herself off of heroin. Our nephew, her brother, has been in and out of prison and homeless shelters in the throes of his addiction.

I don’t know I really understood the extent of the problem until I started reading The West Side Leader (a free newspaper delivered right to my doorstep.) Under the neighborhood watch, they list some of the incidence that involved the police in the previous week. In the last year, I started seeing 1-3 overdose incidences listed for our area every week (and we have a rather small community!) As a matter of fact, it would be easy to think that those sorts of things happened elsewhere and not here in our neighborhood! What a wake-up call!!

I was shocked by some of the stories he shared in his presentation and glad of it! I think it’s important for people to hear the shocking details of this pandemic that has permeated our society. I would be surprised if there is a person in this country who can say they haven’t been affected in some way! As a matter of fact, I would be willing to bet that anyone who thinks that probably knows someone who is keeping their problem a secret. I can’t imagine that is one that can be kept for long!

I, for one, do not want to perpetuate the silence that has allowed this rot to fester under the surface! As a child of an alcoholic, I learned early on about addiction from my addict who sobered up and determined to teach us and prepare us for life. My education was probably my saving grace as it helped me navigate the treacherous waters of adulthood. Which is exactly why I started my conversation with my son early on. He’s 11 and I’ve been talking to him for a couple of years now. There are those that have been shocked by my openness, as if by sharing I would create a problem or encourage him in this direction. I believe the opposite. I want him to know that he can talk to me about ANYTHING and that he NEEDS to hear my warnings about the dangers in this world.

I had my son when I was 30 so I had plenty of time to think about how I was going to raise him. I came up with 2 important things to do early on. First, I decided that I HAD to teach him how to handle disappointment. Life is full of it and if we shield them from it at an early age, it will crush them later on. I also decided that I had to keep him busy. He’s a purple belt in karate, a blue belt in Tae Kwon Do, and he started swim lessons at an early age, so he’s an excellent swimmer (if he can manage to get his grades up I may let him compete some day!) This year he will start band playing the clarinet which I’m sure he will excel at and enjoy immensely.

I want this to be a safe place to communicate openly and express ourselves honestly. Like I said the silence must cease!!! I would love to hear your stories and experiences so that we as a community can learn together!